| The enforcement of conduct guidelines on this site is necessary to keep
this site useful for the purpose for which it has been designed and that
is for the healing and recovery of those hurting as results of divorce.
Please read and follow these guidelines for the chat rooms and the
message boards. |
Join in and participate. You'll enjoy your chat experience much more that way. Learn and give while you're here.
Welcome visitors to the chat room.
Give a warning before you leave and exit in a courteous manner.
Be understanding of others who are in pain... give them time to speak about their pain openly.
Only one membership per person.
If you choose to change your nickname you must tell everyone who you are. Sometimes we have sad nicknames and after we heal want to change them and thats fine but when you post or come into chat you must not act like new member. That is deception and will not be tolerated here.
NO INDECENT NICKNAMES.
No profanity.
Remember while chatting some of members children may either be on or watching chat.
No personal attacks.
No conflicts or arguing, no debates.
No discussion of other divorce sites.
We love good humor, but keep it clean.
Keep it non-sexual and out of the gutter.
No cyber sex chats are permitted.
If you are coming here to find a cyber sex partner, you're in the wrong place!
If you are coming here to find a mate, companion, next candidate for a relationship, an easy mark, victim, lover, date, you're in the wrong place. If we find out you're hitting on the women or vise versa you are out of here. We won't tolerate it.
Any message posted which will harm another member will be deleted so don't do it.
Avoid subjects that will cause controversy, as we all need a safe peaceful place to chat.
NO SPAMMING! YOU WILL BE BANNED!
If you are personally interested in another member do it in whisper, not in the chat room or on the message board.
Do not give your phone number to another member. Be cautious in giving personal information for your own safety.
Be aware that preditors don't come with a label.
Any personal relationship between two members is not encouraged but if it happens it will be kept private and out of the chat and off the boards. Remember this one. But you can tell me (tweety)
No links to other sites to be posted without management approval.
If you have a complaint consult with the managers. We will be happy to have a conference with you out of the chat room, on messenger or in the quiet spot chat room. Take the issue to Regular Chat Room and you will be kicked out and banned. Take the issue to the message board your post will be deleted and you will be banned. Anything which disrupts the harmony of this site will not be tolerated.
If you choose not to abide by these rules, you will be kicked out of chat, banned from this site, with no hesitation. The most common reason people are banned is for not respecting the rules here.
If you're happy we are happy for you, but remember others are still hurting.
We're not dictators here, neither is it our intention to control but only to maintain this site for it's original purpose.
We hope you won't leave here like you came, but with something good to take with you which will make a difference in your life. Give back what you are given here, reach out to others.
