The Site Map Break Up Advice and Help The community's busy Message Board is where you can ask for advice and share support and comfort with others. Easily browse all the messages ever posted with our handy Archive facility. The Survival Kit lists useful tips to help you through the early stages of a break up. In the Articles section you'll find pages of extracts from other members, books and web sites that discuss some of the various issues surrounding a break up              Check out Gold Posts, a list of some of the most helpful posts made by members of here at Break Up Survival. Success Stories are messages from old members who have come back to let us know the reality of that light at the end of the tunnel One of our members, Daisyjane, explained an experiment you can do to see how much of your precious energy you are wasting on your ex, click here for The Cups Experiment. Helpful Links lists many other sites that may be of use at this time. Suicidal? lists links and general advice for those who are struggling and very scared of their feelings.  General Community Information Please take time to read our Community Guidelines, to know and observe them will help keep this place a good place for everyone.                                  The Chat Room.  Tips for getting the most out of the Chat Room If you want to keep in touch regularly with others at the community IM Buddies lists members who are available for chat 1 on 1. Posting Tips will explain how to use backgrounds, pictures and tables in your posts. Keen to keep your online identity at Break Up Survival private?  Worried about the Ex finding your posts?  Click here. Questions about how the community works?  Click here for MSN Communities Help.  !Fed up with too many posts flooding your inbox? Then Click Here Search this Community.  Many of the current topics on the boards have been discussed at length previously.  See what's been said. Meet the Managers Lists for Members Break Up Anthems is a place for you to list the music that has helped you through the roughest parts of your break up. Break Up Movies list the films that have uplifted, encouraged and humoured you. Break Up Books lists the books you couldn't do without! Post your own and find and read other member's story's at My Story.  (You can edit and update your story as much as necessary.) Find out about other members at My Profile  Whose birthday is it today? My Birthday Better Off Because is a list compiled by members of reasons why you're better off without your ex. Dreams and Schemes is a page for you to record new dreams you have. What They Say/What They Mean is a humorous look at some of the classic break up lines trotted out by the ex, be sure to add your own revelations! See what part of the world other members live in at the Member Maps page.  Be sure to show us what part is home to you! Do you idea on how to improve the community, maybe a new feature?  please visit the Suggestions page. Other Pages of Interest The Poetry Room is a collection of relevant and moving verse. Inspiration. Click here for Member's Photos Have Some Fun is a growing collection of ideas to give you a little distraction. My Dedication.